AN INFLUENTI@L COLUMN ON INFOSYS C@MPUS CONNECT TR@INING PROGRAMME

                             

                               I came to know from my friends that  INFOSYS is going to conduct a training programme in our college,Vinayaka Mission's Kirupananda Variyar Engineering College as part of INFOSYS CAMPUS  CONNECT .When i came to know about this, my happinees was beyond the limit.But,due to certain circumstances ,i was not able 2 join the very first batch of training.But,i joined the third batch...Each batch had 120 students........splitted into two batches again..60..&..60.Training was for 5 days from 21st to 25th of January......followed by 4 assessments...Sheethal Mohithe was our mentor from INFOSYS.Training covered various sessions on team work , presentation skills ,group discussion, assertiveness behaviour ,interview skills and so..on....

                                                         

                                                           If someone ask me,what changes the INFOSYS Training had given me ,I have answers for them.My confidence level really got improved from its depth..Before training ,when i say "i can do tht..","y..should not  I?" ,i was trying to expose or showcase myself  as a confident person infront of others ,eventhough my mind was just confused with my statements that i made.I was not practical at all. I always tried to mug up the great sayings available on books and internet  to enhance my confidence level.Actually, i was not having  belief in myself ,so,that i can do that work or i can perform upto that level.More than, one  month had over after training,but,till now,i don't know ,what magic people from INFOSYS  have done on me.........Now,on sincerely speaking,whenever i agree for new works or while taking any new responsiblities, am getting an answer from my mind  that i will be able 2 cross hurdles and reach my destination..Really, i don't know how i should express it .But,onething i can say, my confidence level really got increased  from its root itself...Now,its  not shown in my words,its really visible in my activities... My myself got prepared to face ,whatever thats going to happen in my life..... Leadership qualities embedded in me, got polished. Actually i was able 2 recognize the importance of the statement that  Kareena makes to Shahid  "jo inzaan real mai chahta ha,usko vahi milta hai" in JAB WE MET.

                               

                                 My English got really improved.I cannot say that,before training , my English was so bad ,so ,that i cannot express myself  but,it was just an kk type......After training,sudden increase in  my English fluency was clear .  I was also able to get an opinion from my friends and classmates  that my looks started having a professional touch. I started seems to be an energetic and enthusiastic person.I myself started doing experiments on myself to exhibit me, each day ,better than day before . Onething, i can assure ,the money i had spent on training was not in vain.        

a session on reality.........

After spenting some days at home,me n my two friends returned from home.Only query that was left in our mind was 'what to write for exams?Unremained days of studyleave..can give us the answer...........with that belief we returned from home....

...........Me,Anju & Liya started our  talking after entering into compartment of DHANBAD EXPRESS.........topics for sharing started from.............very triffle matters............after sometime..a middle aged woman also.........got inside  our compartment ....But,..no..matter...............we continued our talking....

in the meanwhile..."marriage relationships"came as topic .........we started sharing about experiences of our nephews n relatives before marriage n after marriage..........

 "U have to see my aunt,what her husband had done to her.......... hand have been toren by him..........her hand is that much swollen ..."

"Look what my nephew is facing now.............she is not given  right to see her parents..not even to talk in phone..................her mother-in-law is checking whether she is speaking against them or not"

"our matter is entirely different,her husband had made her  sign documents to take money from her account.........and she got very nicely from her him,.when she asked for what purpose?"

"what was his promise, about the continuity of studies,after marriage...........nw whats her situation?"

"her matter is too pity.................she got a slap .........on the very first day of her birth of her first baby.........from the hand.. ..............where she should get maximum care"

"I have heard that condition  differs before and after marriage only in relationships where love matters............but,in arranged marriages too..............."

"suffering much from him..but,still she says .............i don't want divorce........i know,he love me a lot"

"woman who have little bit smartness and frankness only can survive"

"who knows......... who is going to be my ..................?"

"Its better not to go for a marriage"

our conversations started going by this way..............................................

"i know u all have idea about realities of life.......... .....it does not mean everyones matter is like that............ 

God has made someone for each n everyone and it will happen only like that.........n strength of every relation goes on depending on how we deal............................what happened   to your nephew....its because she don't know how to deal ?"

these words were not from us.............this was from that stranger woman................

i felt very shy................when she commented on our talks...............i really felt ,i got a nice beating at my back.........but,i just pretended am listening to her............

after that, i went back to the begining of  our boggee to wash my face .............no.....to hide my face 

  

am at new endeavour................

when, each day go infront of my eyes,at the last hours of the day,i always used to think what i have done today.........?
i always discovered, nothing that much important............
all the days of mine found to be very similar........
i didn't find any thirst from my heart for a new adventure........it always stayed as a standing idol........sometimes, i might be wrong...ya,obviously its me,who was not ready to lend my ears what my heart want to speak ......procrastination mentality that got watered in my character,from childhood....also have a great share......in my failures that i have undergone till now.............but,still i dont know ,from where i got the confidence to wave"bye" to my failures....n  energizing syrup ,now am receiving from inner core of my heart  to improve myself ........but,today i can say i have accomplished something ,by the commencement of this blog, the dreamproject of my last 1 year.........with that satisfaction.....i can go for sleep today.........